Seersucker Sass: April 2013

Tuesday, April 30, 2013

High-Waisted Shorts - Two ways




I have been wanting a pair of high-waisted shorts for a few weeks now, so I decided to feature them on the blog!

My style is usually pretty classic & preppy, but one of my favorite things to do is create an edgier outfit and then use more classic pieces to accessorize with.

Let me know what you think!  How do you like to style your high-waisted jeans?

XX,

SS



High Waisted Shorts - Two ways





Monday, April 29, 2013

Sweet Sisterhood


“Out of such pure and simple beginnings grow great and wonderful things.” 

– Lenora Ashmore Blackiston




It is hard for me to believe that I have been an alumna member of my sorority for an entire semester now.  The remaining members of my pledge class are going alum tonight, and they have been on my mind all day.

I joined a sorority looking for friends, and I left with so much more.  If you have ever considered Greek life, I urge you to give it a try.  I would not be half the person that I am today if it was not for my sisters.

My sophomore year, my new member educator (aka pledge mom) read a note during preference that I will never forget as long as I live - sisterhood is about crawling through the back door and walking proudly out the front steps.  My sisters have never left me, even when I was moody or bossy or looked like complete and total hell or was sobbing on New Years Eve because the love of my life broke up with me.  My sisters have never been rude or bitter about my accomplishments and have always been there to support me, fix my hair, and offer me pieces of their wardrobe when I am being dramatic and indecisive.  If you've ever heard the Eric Church song "Like Jesus Does," it has always reminded me about my sisters.
  We love each other, we brag on each other, and we will fight to the death for each other.  

When my sorority was in a "liking" competition on Facebook last week, so many other chapters banded together to help us win!  Sisterhood isn't something that just exists within a chapter, but it is a network of love.  I am so blessed, and I have nothing but well wishes for all of the women who are bridging over to alumna life!

Do you have a story about sisterhood that you would like to share?  I am super sentimental & would love to hear it!  Also, if everyone would show some Panehellenic love & remember the Tarleton State chapter of Phi Mu in your prayers, I'm sure that they would greatly appreciate it.

I know Mondays are rough, but if you want to make your day better do something nice for a sister (or anyone really!)  I promise you will feel a little better!

XX,

SS


Monday, April 22, 2013

Spotlight Site!

I always love discovering new stores (especially new stores that monogram!), so I thought that it would be fun to "spotlight" some of my new favorites.  Today's spotlight is Karson Lane!!


I recently won a jewelry carrier from Karson Lane & I am absolutely in love with it!  It is only $14 and has all sorts of handy little pockets on the inside. 



Here is the link if you are interested in purchasing it!  I chose the khaki thread with the circle font, but there are lots of color and thread choices!

Here are some of my other favorites from the site!

 Isn't this key chain darling?  Only $12 & comes in a variety of colors!

And this seersucker hair bow is a must have! 
 

 I strongly encourage you to check the site out!

Have a suggestion for "Spotlight Site?"  Please let me know!!  Hope everyone is having a good Monday :)

XX,

SS

Friday, April 19, 2013

The Power of Prayer



 photo credit: http://ashleighnoel.tumblr.com/ via pinterest

This week has been a stressful one for me, as I am about to commit to a law school.  I spent all day Monday wondering if it was worth it to go into so much debt, not to even be guaranteed a job upon graduation.  With everything happening in Boston, I felt like maybe it was better for me to be close to home, and not five hours away in a town where I know only one other person, an acquaintance that is good friends with my Big.  Tuesday I read one of those heartwarming stories on Facebook about a man who chose to be homeless so that he could travel where the Lord needed him, and he depended on the help of the Lord.  I don’t know whether it was a true story or not, but it touched me in a way that I can’t describe.  So I prayed that God would use me where He wants me.  If that is law school, then fantastic!  But if not, that’s okay, too.



Tuesday evening, I received a text from a friend that has helped me a lot throughout the entire law school process.  She no longer wanted to go to what had been her top choice school, and she had just committed to the school that I had intentions of going to.  She told me to keep her in mind if I needed a roommate.  I felt immediately as though God had answered my prayer.  I would now have a friend where I was moving!  I would be able to live with a nice, normal person that has the same grandma tendencies that I do (and wears the same size that I do!  Lets be real, that is something to be excited about.)



I was checking my email Wednesday morning when I found an e-mail from the school that I am about to commit to.  They were offering me a technology stipend, and since I already had said technology, I could get a gift card.  Again, I felt like a prayer had been answered.  The generous amount on the gift card would help me to furnish my new apartment.  I was ecstatic!  And as word spread around the office, people asked me what I needed for my new apartment.  They were excited for me and wanted to help me on my journey to law school, even though my internship just started in January.  Having people besides my mom and best friends support me isn’t something that I’m used to, and I was taken aback by their kindness and selflessness.



Yesterday, I received a set of containers and coffee cups to go in my new kitchen.  I ask you to please pray for the lady that gave them to me.  Her kindness has answered my prayers, and I hope that in turn, God will answer her prayer to help her father beat cancer again.



Have you seen the power of prayer in action?  I’d love to hear about it! 



Hope everyone has a fun and safe weekend… TGIF!



XX,



SS

Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Relay for Life Inspired Fashion!

Even though I am no longer in undergrad, one of my absolute favorite events that my university puts on is Relay for Life.  As a cancer survivor, Relay is something that is so near and dear to my heart.  I am so excited to be coming back on the alumni team this year!

I thought it might be fun to put together a cute little outfit for Relay for Life since I won't be wearing a committee shirt this year!  In all reality, it doesn't matter what you wear to Relay - I just urge you to attend!

Why do you Relay?

XX,

SS

Sunday, April 14, 2013

Legacies

 photo credit: katespadeny.tumblr.com

"She makes the day brighter. She leaves a little sparkle wherever she goes."


Throughout the day, I always see little things that remind me of people. Scottie dogs always remind me of my momma. Anything University of Tennessee makes me think of my daddy. Muffins make me think of my big because that's her nickname for me. I've always wondered what makes people think of me.

The legacies we leave as young adults are things that will never leave us. After all, this is the last time that we will be with most of our college friends all in one place.

I urge you to concentrate on your legacy this week & leave a little sparkle everywhere that you go. You never know who's life you could impact for the better!

XX,

SS





Friday, April 12, 2013

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

I Didn't Get in... Now What?




 photo credit: Google Images


I received my second rejection letter today, and I swear, it is the most defeating feeling in the entire world.  I don’t care who you are, no one ever wants to hear that they aren’t good enough.

And my dad wouldn’t answer the phone because he was in a meeting.  And I started looking into the 3 law schools that I had gotten into, and almost started crying again because they were so expensive.

Thank goodness my friend Chelsea texted me to calm me down.  Sometimes we all need a reminder that if it doesn’t work out, then it isn’t in God’s plan.  God doesn’t give us everything that we want, but He does give us what we need.  God has known since the minute he imagined me every detail of my life, including where I would go to law school.  Why in the world would I worry about something when it’s all in His hands?

Dad called back while I was in the midst of setting up catering for one of the bigger meetings, and his voicemail was a nice reminder.  A school’s opinion of us doesn’t make us or break us.  The fact that I didn’t get into a certain school doesn’t mean that I can’t be an attorney.  I’ll never be a “Vanderbilt lawyer” or a “Harvard lawyer”, but I will be a lawyer, and at the end of the day, when someone is in a pickle and needs some help, the fact that I am a lawyer is all that will matter.

I have compared the law school application to recruitment more times than I can count. When I was a sophomore in college, I spoke at my sorority’s preference night about how I felt so undeserving to be in my sorority when I first rushed.  I was surrounded by all of these amazing women with so much going for them, and I didn’t know how I got so lucky to be part of something so much bigger than myself.  I was in awe of the older girls, and my pledge sisters are some of the most impressive ladies I will ever know.  My final quote was this – I started this process as a scared, sickly little girl looking for friends.  My sisters saw something in me that I could never see in myself, and I am so thankful for that.  They have given me the best gift of all – confidence. 

I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again.  I refuse to believe that people are defined by a number, and I also refuse to read any kind of school rankings.  (If I don't want to be judged by numbers, it doesn't make sense for me to judge them for theirs...) We are who we are because of the experiences that we’ve had, and we can use those experiences to strengthen us in our future careers.  It’s not possible to be every school’s cup of tea, but let's all remember to be thankful to the schools that do see the potential that we have, and to give them a chance like the chance that they have given us!  Let's be confident in our abilities!

Best of luck to everyone who is applying for any type of education!  Where have you gotten accepted? (or rejected! Haha)  Any advice?  Have a happy Tuesday!


Best,

SS

Monday, April 8, 2013

Rest in Peace, Lilly P


Photo Credit:  Lilly Pulitzer Facebook page

When I heard about Lilly's passing yesterday, my heart was broken.  I felt like I had lost a lifelong friend, and I'm sure that I'm not the only one that felt this way.

My obsession with Lilly began when I was a pre-teen.  I was on my way to vacation in Florida with my family, and there was an article about the brand's relaunch in Vanity Fair.  (I obviously wasn't your normal 13 year old.  Haha.)  I was determined to get my hands on a Lilly dress.

I got my first Lilly dress right the summer before my junior year of college, June 2011.  They were finally starting to carry Lilly in the Belk about two hours from where I lived.  I had been holding off for awhile - I wanted to wear my first Lilly for something special, and so far, I deemed nothing to be special enough.  I had other Lilly items, but no dress.

Vanderbilt Hospital cleared me as cancer free on June 3, 2011.  On the way home, Momma insisted that I try on some Lilly dresses.  I couldn't bring myself to purchase one, because I knew that it would show the large scar on my arm caused by surgery.  But when we left, I couldn't get the dress out of my head.  Momma surprised me with it, and to this day, it is still my favorite piece of Lilly.

You will never, ever be forgotten, sweet Lilly.

Do you have a favorite piece of Lilly?  A favorite Lilly quote?  Share it here & we will all celebrate her memory!

XX,

SS